Page header image

Suicide in Children and Teens

Suicide is the act of taking one's own life. It is one of the most common causes of death in children from ages 10 to 19. Girls attempt suicide more often than boys do. Girls are more likely to try to kill themselves by overdosing on drugs or cutting their wrists. Boys are much more likely to actually kill themselves. Boys most often try to kill themselves using guns, hanging, or jumping.

Guns are the most common and fastest-growing method of suicide in the US. Having a gun in the house increases the risk that a young person will commit suicide. An upset child or teen may impulsively use a firearm. Using a gun increases the chances that a suicide attempt will be fatal. Other methods are more likely to allow time for second thoughts and getting medical help.

Who is at risk?

Children are more likely to think of suicide if they suffer from depression, anxiety disorders, or bipolar disorder, or if they abuse alcohol or drugs. Stressful events such as getting into trouble at school or with police can trigger thoughts of suicide. Children and teens are more likely to kill themselves on impulse than adults are. Your child is at higher risk for committing suicide if he:

  • Has tried suicide before
  • Is often angry, easily upset, resentful, and violent
  • Has relationship problems like breaking up with a girlfriend or boyfriend, fighting with friends, or being bullied
  • Has little communication with his parents, or has parents who have divorced or recently remarried

What are the signs of suicidal feelings?

Signs that your child is depressed and thinking of suicide may include:

  • Acting sad and uninterested in things that were once enjoyed
  • Having trouble falling asleep, waking up very early, or sleeping too much
  • Having changes in appetite and weight, either up or down
  • Not having much energy
  • Feeling worthless and guilty
  • Not being able to concentrate or remember things and letting the quality of his or her schoolwork go down
  • Feeling hopeless or just not caring about anything
  • Getting very moody, irritable, violent, rebellious, or withdrawn
  • Abusing drugs or alcohol, driving too fast, or other risky behaviors
  • Talking or joking about suicide or writing notes or poems about death
  • Giving away prized possessions or throwing away important belongings
  • Knowing how and where he or she would commit suicide

What can I do to help my child?

Ask your child if he or she is thinking about suicide. You will not cause suicide by talking about it. You show that you care when you ask. If he or she talks about death or mentions suicide, do not get mad or pass judgment. Get professional help. Reassure your child that you love him or her. Remind children that no matter how awful problems seem, they can be worked out, and that you are willing to help.

Often a child gives clues that he or she is going to commit suicide. Most children do NOT hurt themselves or fake suicide just to get attention. Talking about suicide is a cry for help. If your child ever tells you he or she is planning to commit suicide, take it seriously.

If you think your child is suicidal, remove or lock up weapons in your home, such as guns, pills, and poisons. Call the National Suicide Hotline at 1-800-SUICIDE or get emergency care.

Your child may need to be treated until the risk of committing suicide has passed. Many of those who attempt suicide try it again within the next year. Both medicines and therapy are useful to treat depression.

For more information, contact:

Developed by RelayHealth.
Pediatric Advisor 2015.3 published by RelayHealth.
Last modified: 2014-02-13
Last reviewed: 2013-09-11
This content is reviewed periodically and is subject to change as new health information becomes available. The information is intended to inform and educate and is not a replacement for medical evaluation, advice, diagnosis or treatment by a healthcare professional.
Copyright ©1986-2015 McKesson Corporation and/or one of its subsidiaries. All rights reserved.
Page footer image